Decisions That Shape Family Transitions

Divorce and family mediation in Buffalo for parenting, support, property, and post-divorce modifications

Divorce and legal separation involve practical decisions that will affect daily routines, financial stability, and parenting responsibilities for years. Common Ground Mediation provides a structured setting where both parties can work through these decisions together rather than leaving every issue to be resolved through contested litigation. Kate Johnson facilitates the process in Buffalo and Erie County, helping participants address custody schedules, spousal support, division of retirement accounts, and other financial matters in a private environment where both parties retain control over the outcomes.



Mediation covers a wide range of issues that arise during divorce, including child custody, parenting schedules, holidays and vacations, transportation arrangements, child support, decision-making for children, spousal support or maintenance, division of assets and debts, handling of the marital residence, bank accounts and investments, retirement accounts and pensions, and division of vehicles and other property. Each situation presents different priorities and complications, so the mediation process adapts to the specific issues the parties need to resolve. Some couples need focused sessions on parenting logistics, while others spend more time addressing complex financial portfolios or business interests.


Arrange an initial consultation to discuss the issues involved in your situation and whether mediation is appropriate..

How Mediation Addresses Family and Financial Issues

The mediation process begins with identifying the matters that need to be addressed, which may involve parenting, support, property, debts, and other financial issues. The parties then gather and exchange the information needed to have informed and productive discussions, such as financial statements, account balances, property valuations, and income documentation. During mediation sessions, the parties meet with the mediator to discuss each issue, explore options, and work toward mutually acceptable solutions.


Once agreements have been reached, Kate Johnson prepares a Memorandum of Understanding summarizing the terms both parties agreed upon. Participants receive a written document that outlines the agreements made during mediation, which they can review with their respective attorneys before proceeding with final legal documents or court filings. The MOU provides clarity on each resolved issue and serves as the foundation for the legal paperwork that follows.



Mediation can also help former spouses work through changes or disagreements that arise after a divorce is finalized, such as modifications to parenting schedules, adjustments to support obligations, or disputes about decision-making for children. Post-divorce mediation provides a way to address these issues without returning to court for every disagreement..

Questions Before Beginning the Mediation Process

Individuals considering mediation in Buffalo often want to understand how the process works and what to expect.

  • What types of financial matters can be addressed in mediation?

    Parties can work through spousal support or maintenance, division of assets and debts, handling of the marital residence, bank accounts and investments, retirement accounts and pensions, and division of vehicles and other property.


  • How does mediation handle parenting schedules and custody?

     The mediator helps parents develop practical agreements regarding child custody, parenting schedules, holidays and vacations, transportation, child support, and decision-making for children, which are then documented in the Memorandum of Understanding.


  • Can we use mediation if we have already filed for divorce?

    Yes, mediation can be used at any stage of the divorce process, whether the parties are just beginning to discuss separation or are already involved in court proceedings and need help resolving remaining issues.


  • What happens if circumstances change after the divorce is finalized?

     Post-divorce mediation can help former spouses address changes or disagreements that arise later, such as modifications to custody arrangements, adjustments to support payments, or disputes about parenting decisions.


  • How long does the mediation process take in Erie County?

    The timeline depends on the complexity of the issues, the availability of financial information, and the parties' ability to reach agreements, with some cases resolving in a few sessions and others requiring additional time to address all matters.


Common Ground Mediation works with individuals and families throughout Buffalo who need a structured process to resolve divorce, parenting, and financial matters. Contact Kate Johnson to schedule an initial consultation and explore your mediation options.